In this video, Coach Lee, explains how your ex comes back to you and why they do so sometimes but not in other situations.
Be sure to watch the video above all the way through because details matter if you want the best chance possible of getting your ex back.
Again, that’s if you want the best chance you can have.
An ex’s journey back to you can be a beautiful thing.
It’s common for people to feel that a breakup forever damages a relationship or proves that the two were not meant to be together.
That is usually not the case.
A breakup can actually be the best thing that ever happened to your relationship for a few potential reasons:
- Your ex learns a valuable lesson that will prevent future breakups because they will remember that they didn’t like being without you.
- The two of you become better at appreciating each other and the special bond you share because you have been without it and might have thought that it was lost forever.
- The breakup brings the realization that no matter how good the relationship was at one point, it could (and should) be made stronger.
Why Does An Ex Come Back?
An ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend comes back because they see that being with you is better than being without you.
That’s the simple answer to why he or she comes back.
The complete answer, as you might imagine, is more detailed, nuanced, and contains exceptions.
It is key for you to know that your ex only learns this if they are able to experience being without you.
It’s a difficult lesson for you to allow your ex to learn, but if you want your ex back, he/she must learn it.
I discuss this in much more detail in the video above and in my Emergency Breakup Kit.